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College Lessons

Everyone has a different college experience and mine has been full of life lessons. My college takeaways may be a bit different from most, but I speak from personal experience.

1. Procrastination, in many cases, is just prioritizing.

Professors rant and rave about procrastination, but I think they forget we have lives outside of class. If I have to choose between preserving my well-being over homework, then so be it. Paying bills, staying healthy and finishing homework are all priorities. Juggling those things is an art form I like to call prioritization. With that said, putting off homework when there is plenty of time to finish it is a sure way to fail. Prioritize for success in all parts of your life.

2. Find ways to get involved with professional groups.

UNT PRSSA National Conference in San FranciscoStudents need to build a network with peers and professionals. PRSSA is a great resource, but not the only one available to students. If you have an interest in social media, then find your local Social Media Club. If you enjoy digital, then attend a Digital Dallas event. Getting involved in organizations outside of school is a great way to show initiative and develop an independent network in your area of interest.

3. Dream jobs and internships are within reach, so apply.

Take a chance. There is nothing to lose.  My Grandma convinced me to apply to an NBC News university program. As a news junkie, I dreamed of meeting Tom Brokaw and Ann Curry. I am so thankful my family taught me to give everything a shot, even if it felt out of reach because my semester in New York City was a dream come true. Some people are too afraid of rejection to take a chance, but there’s no way of knowing success without a few failures along the way.

4. Group projects are rarely fun and stressful.

Teachers always say that students will have to work on team projects in the workplace, but it’s a lot more enjoyable to get paid for group work. My first semester at University of North Texas, I had a group project in a public relations course. We tried to work as a group, but one girl refused to show up to meetings. She waited until the last minute to turn in the project and our group leader didn’t want to make it cohesive, so I took charge. I ended up writing the majority of the paper and when I went to check out the sources from our absentee group member, she had plagiarized entire websites. The professor gave us all the same crappy grade, including the deadweight group member. That project ruined my take on group projects.

I have a great group for my senior campaign, but it’s still stressful to put together a project while interning 30 hours a week, commuting 90+ miles, trying to plan a wedding and working with everyone else’s schedules. My group has made a stressful project fun, but I think we’re all ready to be done. We’re all planning a night out at Billy Bob’s with my intern buddy, Erin.

5. Travel while you have the extra time.

Bess Byers and I in BeijingThere is value in understanding other cultures. Visiting my best friend, Bess Byers, in China was one of the best experiences of my life. I learned a lot about the Chinese culture and traditions. It has made me aware of the Chinese market and what works for brands in that part of the world. That experience is something valuable to a potential employer with an opportunity for growth in China. I hope to learn Mandarin once I finish college.

My college experience has been very different than most people, but I have enjoyed it. I’m also glad it is almost over. I have many more lessons to share, but I’ll save them for another time.

Follow Your Arrow

I figured out what I wanted to do with my life when I was in elementary school. I’m not sure when it occurred to me, but I felt the need to tell stories to the world. I never thought they would be brand stories, but I love to tell them just the same!

My Aunt Patty was the only family member who went to college. She had a beautiful home and life in Seattle.  She helped rescue abused animals, sang in a choir, took beautiful photos and was always writing me postcards and sending me books to read. It was my dream to be just like her.

Neither of my parents went to college, but they pushed me to get a degree. It’s not easy to explain college-specific situations to people who have never experienced it firsthand. I’m grateful that through it all my parents have stuck with me. My family has been my true North.

There is strength in knowing your North – your constant. My parents knew I loved reading and writing. I always watched the news and loved the newspaper. They encouraged my interests. It was reassuring when I got to high school and my freshman English teacher, Mr. Woodford, asked me to join the newspaper staff. I knew I would continue to tell stories.

Many of my college friends had no idea what they wanted to do at 18-years-old and, eventually, dropped out of college. Older folks might say my friends lost their way, but it’s hard to get lost with no direction from the start. We are all quick to judge other people’s lives and ambitions. Maybe Facebook is partly to blame for the readily available information on everyone’s lives, but our paths are all different. Our compasses point to our North.

I’m not sure how my goals were so clear at a young age, but it makes me very thankful.

I’m thankful for the constant sense of direction and a North like no one else’s.

13.1

Last weekend I ran my first half marathon. It had been on my bucket list since 2011.

Running the Cowtown

My Grandma inspired me to run a half marathon because she lost the ability to be active early in life and it was not her choice. Wegener’s granulomatosis made it difficult for her to walk from her car to the front door. She would tell me stories about swimming and spending time in the mountains, but she hadn’t been in a pool in 35 years and could never be more than an hour from electricity for breathing treatments.

I kept talking about my bucket list and my goal of completing a half marathon like I had forever to accomplish it.

My friend, Micah Larsen, started posting photos of half marathons, triathlons and all kinds of outdoor activities. She is a trainer in Alabama and one of the most driven people I know from home. Her posts were a wake up call.

I signed up for the Cowtown Half Marathon on an impulse and I am so glad I did.

On January 3, two of my young cousins died in a car accident. Ashton and Sofia were two of the most lively, rambunctious, fun people in my life. Losing them reminded me that life is not guaranteed. I think most people take time and health for granted.

Ashton & I went to Roaring Springs every year after fireworks.

Ashton & I went to Roaring Springs every year after fireworks.

Adults spend their lives working toward the years when they will finally have time to live.

We always look back and know what we would change, but my cousins don’t get that opportunity. At 17 and 6 years old, their lives were cut short.

I think of them everyday. I hung photos of them in my cube at work to stay motivated and remind me that everyday is a gift. I added their favorite songs to my playlist for the half and was reminded of the fun summers in Idaho with the Moore’s Fireworks crew.

I spent the race thinking back on the last two years. Saying goodbye to my Grandmother and moving 2,000 miles from home was a crazy decision, but so is running 13 miles for fun.

Sofia & Zoey's first double rainbow over the summer of 2010.

Sofia & Zoey’s first double rainbow over the summer of 2010.

Looking back on Sunday, I don’t remember my legs hurting or any other pain. In fact, I remember laughing through part of mile six about my 6-year-old cousin dancing around in her underwear to Ke$ha. I remembered road tripping to Boise to work fireworks for a month and spending time with my Grandma and cousins.

I remembered how excited Sofia was the first time she saw a double rainbow and the first time I met Ashton. I recalled the day Zoey, their sister, took her first steps.

Memories and health are things we all take for granted and the only things that occupied my mind on Sunday morning. I may not be training for anything, but I’ll be running for perspective.

2012

It is time to set goals for 2012.

Get my cumulative GPA back to a 3.5 or better.

Trying to balance life and school has been a struggle over the last semester. I figured out that my school work needed more attention, but it was too late in the semester. I arranged my work availability to accommodate study time at the library.

Pick up healthier habits that work with my schedule.

My school schedule will enable me to spend time at the recreation center on campus almost everyday. A friend mentioned the Advocare 24 Day Challenge to me and I started it over a week ago. My energy levels are up and I can finally sleep through the night. I know this is a glimpse into what healthy living and smart choices can accomplish, and I love it!

Find an internship or job that works with my career goals.

I love my current job, but it does not provide me with experience in the public relations field. I had a very great time in my training at NBC back east and would love some similar experience in the near future. I have been looking through internship listings online and I intend on getting one next summer.

Travel more.

I traveled less than I ever have in 2011. I did get to visit Colorado, New Mexico, Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Louisiana over the past year, but I want to see more of the beautiful country I have the privilege to call home. I have a wedding to attend in Tennessee this year and I cannot wait to check out Nashville!

Write more handwritten letters to family and friends.

Who doesn’t love receiving a handwritten letter? I love knowing that someone took the time out of their busy life to think of me. It means the world to me! I need to get better about sending the letters I write because I have a huge pile of unsent letters in my room. My Grandmother use to write me all the time and I have saved those letters in a box under my bed.

Run a 10K. Again.

In 2007, I ran Bloomsday in Spokane, Washington. I have not been running as often as I should and I intend on running a 10K to force myself to run frequently. I would love to work my way up to a half marathon! Baby steps are the best way to get there…

Get involved.

I was involved in nearly every organization on the WSU Tri-Cities campus, but have not been involved on the UNT campus since I moved here in March. Time has been an issue, but this semester will permit my involvement in campus clubs and organizations.


Kicking off 2011

2011 is already off to a better start than 2010. I rang in the new year along side my closest friends and will be moving to Dallas, Texas in the next few weeks.

Last year I avoided resolutions, but made a refreshed “to-do list” – most people would call it a bucket list. I had the privilege of becoming friends with some wonderful people, traveling to mainland China, Hong Kong, Canada, St. Louis, and Phoenix, and got a couple semesters closer to receiving my degree.

My goals for 2011 -

Get into a Communications program at a university in Texas.

Go to a college football game.

Find a job in my field with adequate pay.

Go shooting.

Visit a few states I haven’t been to and take pictures in each one.

Get to know my Texas family better.

Learn another foreign language.

Make the apartment feel like a home.

Call and write friends who are far away more often.

Join a college TV or newspaper staff.

Get a 3.5 GPA or higher all semesters.

Go to an NFL game in Dallas.

Visit friends in and around Texas.

Become more confident when using the Adobe Creative Suite.

This list is just the beginning, but I have no doubt 2011 will be unforgettable. Looking forward to moving on to bigger and better things!

What do you want to achieve this year?

A Little Winter Nostalgia

Over the last two weeks, I have worn a couple of my favorite pea coats and quickly realized I need to invest in some new ones. Looking into and thinking about getting new pea coats made me a little nostalgic and I started thumbing through old photos. Each of the coats carry some great memories of the last couple years.

I bought this orange BB Dakota pea coat at our local Buckle in the fall of 2008 for $50, after I found out I’d be moving to New York City. I had no pea coats and loved bright colors – little did I know black was New York dress code. It didn’t make much of a difference to me and I continued to wear my bright jacket until my roommate convinced me it screamed “tourist” and “mug me.” One Saturday I ventured out to Union Square with my dear friend, Shalane Larango, for a little retail therapy. I ended up buying a black military style pea coat for $25 at Forever 21. Shalane ended up purchasing a gray pea coat for the same price as well. We wandered the city in our pea coats together the whole weekend, stopping for a cliché photo in the Grand Central Station Terminal and getting breakfast at the, now closed, Comfort Diner.

I had so much fun wandering the Big Apple at the beginning of 2009. Frost bite is not quite as charming as fresh fallen snow on brick buildings, but it comes with the territory. Layers will not always do the trick when dealing with bitter cold, especially when exposure is extended. If you love cities and don’t mind the cold, I strongly suggest visiting New York City for the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade or for New Year’s Eve in Times Square. If you aren’t much for the cold or crowds, stay put and wait until summer.

Now I have to make the decision to create memories to last with my new pea coats. Something tells me it will not be difficult to do with the coming changes and the wonderful people in my life.

Do you own anything that reminds you of a certain time in your life or certain people?

Wangfujing Street

Took this on Wangfujing Street during my visit to Beijing in May of this year. Wangfujing is the food and shopping hot spot in the city. While in Beijing, this was one of my favorite places I visited. People from around the world come to check out all of the street vendors!  On the last day of my visit, Bess and I made a run to the food street for the delicious glass fruit on a stick and ended up eating deep friend scorpion from this vendor. The vendor thought it was funny when he tried putting a live scorpion on my back – NOT COOL.

There were fully grown boiled scorpions at one vendor, ducks on a stick, skewered tentacles, and pretty much anything under the sun! The highlight of Wangfujing was purchasing Panda hats from a local vendor – Thank God for Bess’s amazing Mandarin Chinese skills because the vendors try to charge American 10 times more than normal!

China was the last place I thought I would ever visit, but I’m so glad I did. The experience was unforgettable – the people are kind, the culture beautiful, and the cities are bustling!

Live a Little, Love a Little

I’m 21 years old and have been to around 40 funerals in my lifetime. At 15, I lost two of my close friends in a car accident and it made me think about what I want to achieve in my lifetime. No matter how short or long my life may be, I want it full of unforgettable experiences and wonderful people. A couple years went by before coming back to my list of goals…

I have always been referred to as a dreamer by many of my teachers and relatives, but dreams are for people who see things as unattainable and out of reach. A dreamer will sleep, have a vivid picture of things, and after waking up – forget all about their dream. I am not a dreamer.

Bucket lists are not for people my age. I prefer to call my list a to do list.

Every six months, sometimes more or less time, I get my old list out to check off my achievements and make a new one. It seems a bit more manageable to achieve things when the list is short. The list below includes much of the first list I ever made and each thing I have completed will look a bit like this. This is going to be a master list making it longer than normal, but it gives a better idea.

1. Live in New York City – Manhattan preferably. [12.2008 - 05.2009]

2. Do something for myself and not feel guilty or selfish.

3. Witness New Year’s Eve in Times Square. [01.2009]

4. Watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade from Times Square. [11. 2008]

5. Get my Bachelor’s degree.

6. Sing to a crowd of more than 5,000 people. [05.2007]

7. Work for a humanitarian group in a foreign country.

8. Learn something new everyday.

9. Never own a credit card – pay in cash or don’t buy at all.

10. Tell someone how much I love them and do it fearlessly. [03.2009]

11. Meet the people I look up to in my career field. [01. 2009 - 05.2009]

12. Get signed to a talent agency. [11.2009]

13. Fall in love. (The only real love, I believe, is the one you marry and hold on to forever.)

14. Learn Spanish and be considered fluent by my school. [05.2010]

15. Touch down on every continent.

16. Go to China – see both systems in Hong Kong and mainland. [05.2010]

17. Learn a little basic mandarin and use it to order food or catch a cab. [05.2010]

18. Run a 5K. [10K in 05.2007]

19. Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day in a pub in Dublin, Ireland.

20. Try wakeboarding. [07.2008]

21. Take  a dance class – not ballet, tap, or jazz.

22. Go to Vatican City and Rome to visit the places I wrote about in Catholic school.

23. Eat something disgusting by most standards. [05.2010]

24. Visit my friends in London, Paris, Berlin, Brussels, Krakow, Madrid, Barcelona, Lisbon, Rome, and more.

25. Buy a house and make it my own.

26. Write as a guest for my H.S. newspaper [05.2009]

27. Be on the front line of a monumental moment in history

28. Visit the South (Texas doesn’t count).

29. Visit all 50 states.

30. Go to Canada. [05.2010]

31. Go skydiving.

32. Get an address book together and hand write my friends and family.

33. Learn how to fly – if my eyes permit.

34. Befriend someone who doesn’t like me. [10.2007]

35. Go kayaking and canoeing. [06.2000]

36. Learn to surf.

37. Go scuba diving. [08.2008]

38. Visit Buenos Aires, Argentina.

39. Travel to Mexico. [08.2008]

40. Learn to play guitar.

41. See the Grand Canyon and Four Corners.

42. Set foot in the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans. [06.2006]

43. Become fluent in Chinese and/or German.

44. See the Northern Lights.

45. Fill a full page of my passport with stamps. [05.2010]

46. Visit Auschwitz.

47. Get out of Tri-Cities for good.

48. Model in New York City’s Fashion Week. [02.2009]

49. Change the world.

50. See one of The Beatle’s in concert.

This list could go on and on. I’ll add as I think of more goals to complete. :]

If you make a list or have a goal similar – let me know! I’d love to read them.